Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Ruwwais Beach Trip

About a month ago, or perhaps more...errr....it was last Eid, so it was quite awhile ago, my friend Tracy asked me to go to the beach with her and another friend to meet said friends partner, Peter, and John, who were taking a 5 day fishing trip around Qatar in Peter's boat, but it was quite windy, so they were stranded at this lagoon. So, the three of us hopped into Tracy's MRV, and began our little trek north. After seeing much desert, and a few trees (unfortunately no camels), we arrived at a non-descript oil barrel, and Mary says that she thinks this is the turn! Tracy doesn't seem convinced, but we try it anyway....not correct, but that's OK! Getting anywhere here is completely trial and error.

So we continue on our merry way, negotiating non-roads, deciphering where the sand looks like it most driven in....we drive on a paved road, and Mary says just to turn into the desert anywhere, as the beach is directly off to our left, even if we can't see it. So we do, and low and behold, we hit mangroves and the beach, which is also right by an abandoned village! Woohoo! Here are a few photos for you all....

My favorite...the Persian Gulf, or Arabian Gulf (whatever...it's a body of water....no one owns it), is in the background. There are tons of stingray in the shallows apparently, so shuffling feet is a must! I can honestly say that I've never walked with stingray before, and I will admit that I was more than a bit hesitant; however, the water was amazing...bathlike temperatures. The sand, on the other hand, was not at all soft! Oh well ~ it was still nice : )


The beach, and Gulf, is just through these buildings. While we were there, I relished in the idea of moving to a place as isolated and peaceful as this, being able to wake up to this every morning....but, imagine the dust! Ack!

This is the view of the beach as we were driving away, saying goodbye. I must say that it was wonderful to wade in the waters, eat in abandoned buildings, and be will good people. Loved it!


No one can claim that ND is boring and desolate any longer! Though the dunes and beaches are beautiful I'm sure, this is what the "highway" looked like for much of our 45 minute trip! Notice the dirt mark on the window....it never, ever goes away. You wash your car, the dust is back by the morning. Much like winter snow except the dust never stops, and if you wipe it off, you'll have some nice scratches on your car. Good thing I haven't done that! : )



This is Tracy and I at the end of the day, back at Tracy's!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Apologies and updates






Okay, okay...so I've totally failed in keeping up with this blog....however, I will attempt to add somethings now, while I have a moment to breathe; emphasis on moment. Life here is going quite well, even though i am quite busy, teaching 6 classes and 120 some studetns....writing that is....even so, I really enjoy my students, and I think they like me as well. At least they say they do! :) The above photos are of our new apartment, and I think Leo is in the last photo of the front door!

The first photo is of stickers....these stickers are all over the furniture, and are a bit annoying at first, but now I don't see them at all. they say "Made In China". The picture after this is our living room, but is now looking diffrent, as I've been here longer than 2 weeks! Then, you see the master bathroom, a lovely blue, with both toilet and bidet, and, finally, you'll find the entrance to our master bedroom.

I've now been here 3 months, and rarely get homesick though I do get husband/Sara sick : ( Thank goodness they are both coming to visit for all of Thanksgiving Week!!!! : ) Woohoo!!! Sara's very excited, and I'm excited to show her around Qatar. All of my students really want to meet her, and she's going to do interview them all for a project to present when she goes back to Seattle. We thought since she would be missing some school, and most people in the US don't even know where Qatar is, that she could educate some 4th graders! We're going to go to the singing sand dunes to listen to them sing, climb up them, and then slide down. Sounds like fun, no? We'll also take in the beaches, the malls (which are much more than your average mall...think European canals inside the mall. no joke!), the souks (markets), and whatever else strikes our fancy. I don't really care; I'll just be happy to see them. People at the airport will be talking for days about the weird American lady who ran crying across the airport! Well...there is much of an airport to run across, but if there was, that would be me. I get teary-eyed just thinking about seeing Sara for the first time in three months. I've been fortunate enough to see Rabah twice since I got here, and can only thank God that he is a pilot! He may be gone a lot, but we are certainly blessed with incredibly cheap travel opportunities, as long as their are seats on the plane I must say.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

My classes and students...

I've now got a full week of classes under my belt, and I can now say I am very excited about the semester! : ) I have 6 classes total, 4 women/2 men, all of which are unique and fabulous in their own way. The guys have been great from day 1, sussing me out, trying to figure out what I'm like, etc. Once they figured out that I understand Arabic, they chuckled nervously, but thought it was great. They also get a kick out of the fact that our last name, minus the first "a", Hmar, means donkey in Arabic, and is not a very nice thing to call someone. Quite a bit more offensive than how "ass" is used in the States. Add to that the fact that my brother's name, Matt, means "dead" in Arabic, and you've got a howling class, even the ladies. Seriously, what's not to laugh at?! His name means "dead donkey" ~ hehehehehehehehehe......I laugh every time I think about it. I'm seriously cracking up while I write this!!!! I love you, Matt, and I know you have the right sense of humor for this : )

The ladies are really starting to loosen up with me, and today all three of my classes were laughing. I think I'm a fairly unconventional teacher for them. For example, I told them one of my expectations of them is this: in return for my respect for them, they respect me and their classmates as well. Cell phones are huge here, and they all keep them on their desks, trying to sneak in text messages. So, to make my point, I pretended that my phone, which was on silent, was ringing, and answered it, as if there was someone there, and started making dinner plans, saying no no...not busy...just teaching. I turned to the class, telling them I'd be right back, and then I left the room. I came back in and they were completely unsure of what to think! they were laughing, but not sure if they should be. I asked them how they would have felt if it was a real situation? Does this action show respect? Of course, they all said no, so I explain that I expect the same in return. Good thing one of our units is "Actions Speak Louder Than Words", and it all fell nicely into place. : ) Sometimes I wonder where I pull this crap from, but it sure is a lot of fun at the time.

Speaking of classes....I've got to get back to planning now, but I'll try to keep posting frequently. Camera should be arriving soon, and I'll send photos asap.

Mani/Pedi

Had a fabulous manicure/pedicure the other night, and for minimal funds. No joke either. Helen spent a full two hours meticulously scrubbing, rubbing, shaping, and trimming my nasty hands. It was heavenly. The massage chair, quiet soothing music.....what more could a lady ask for??? Nada!

the food scenario....

I have decided that since there are soooo many American restaurants and fast food places, I needed to try them out to compare them. So far I've tried the following:

McDonalds ~ same as the States, but the burgers seem to have more to them, but the fries don't compare....perhaps I should try a different location....

Hardees ~ don't like it at all there, don't like it here either

Pizza ~ a variety of places....I must say that most places make a pretty tasty pizza

Applebees ~ one would think you'd stepped into American suburbia....everything looks exactly the same. Though they do have a fabulous non-alcoholic drinks menu. This place is HEAVEN for non-alcoholic drinks. I've never seen such a selection of juices in my life! Well...not at Applebees, but at the grocery store and small shops.

Subway ~ the same....but the chips weren't quite what I'd imagined they should be....I'm particular about my chips if you can't tell.

I've also had Thai, but it was nothing in comparison to the restaurant near our old place in San Francisco.

Needless to say, I'm all fast-fooded out, and won't be eating gross, slimy, fattening fare for some time. At least a week or so....though I must say I'm craving brussel sprouts and everything else that supplies my body with the appropriate nutrition! : )

The roads of Doha....

I've had my rental car for about 2 weeks now, and thank God for that! Public transportation is virtually nonexistent here, so I am praising my little KIA every chance I get. Granted, the car has little power, a 4 cylinder, but it serves me well. You may wonder why having power is essential....anyone who has driven in a city with multiple roundabouts can tell you why power is an essential feature in a car, especially when aggressive, and defensive, driving is a must. Some people think I'm crazy, but I actually like driving here because I looove to drive aggressively, maneuvering my through traffic....only when necessary, however. Here, one must always be on their toes, or they will be under someone's SUV for sure. In fact, even other little cars seem to think they can just cut across three lanes of traffic without looking to exit, forcing a person to slam on their breaks, thanking their lucky stars no one is behind them; otherwise, the said someone slamming on their brakes would have a nice car smashed into their driver side. Yes, I'm speaking in the 3rd person...annoying for many, so I'll stop. Driving here can be interesting, frustrating (20 minutes at one stop light), time consuming (see prior comment), fascinating, dangerous, titilating, and a more than a little heart-stopping at times.

The radio keeps me company for now, but if anyone feels the need to get rid of some audio books (casettes for now), please feel free to send them my way! : ) The radio stations are fascinating to listen to. I can practice multiple languages on one radio station. One station has Arabic, English, and French programming ~ thank goodness I understand enough French and Arabic to sometimes get the gist, but the various music the programs play is nice. I can listen to Kenny Rogers, followed by Nirvana, a few minutes later some old French jazzy music, and then Garth Brooks. Ha! I must say that I do enjoy it, and find myself laughing at the choices the DJs make. Doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to what they choose though people can request music as well. I also like to listen to the Hindi station for a good chuckle as well. Don't know if many of you have heard Hindi music, but it's quite fun to listen to, especially if you've seen some Indian movies (they're pretty much all the same....mostly a romance story filled with the leads singing their songs, popping out from behind pillars/trees, followed by a group dance to the music). I have a nice movie going in my head while others are flicking their lights and honking at people going to slow for their liking. All in all, every day is quite fun in the car! : ) Obviously, I am trying to focus on the positive....it's working so far.

Keeping promises and beautiful friends...

OK, OK...I know that I promised to keep up with the blog, and I've been sincerely lacking lately, so now that I have a moment to breathe after the first week of teaching, I'll satisfy your reading quota for the next few days. First things first....friends are a beautiful phenomenon in life, and good friends are simply beyond anything words could describe. I've met some wonderful, helpful people here, and I am eternally grateful to them all for their help in getting me settled and connected. The first story is about a very dear friend, Oresta. So, Oresta lives in London, and I haven't seen her in ages...sob sob....I treasure her friendship for a number of reasons, but mostly because she balances me as a friend. She is calm, and thinks carefully before she speaks. I, as most of you, am a bit chaotic, and tend to blabber on, getting to my point later at the end of my diarhetic shpeel. When I talk with her, I am reminded to slow down and think. How does this relate to Doha you ask??? Well, I was driving home from the mall the other night, and for about 10 minutes was thinking about how I could best connect with her, as my internet phone only calls the US for free. So, at the same time I'm thinking about this, my phone rings, and who do you think it is???? ORESTA!!!!! : ) Completely made my day.

As for friendships and connections here, June, a lady who's been here for a few years, decided to think I am cool enough to invite to her get togethers with people who work in various sectors in Doha. These are people from across the world, and it's been a pleasure to meet them all. Just the other night, she had a book swap at her house, and one of the gentlemen in attendance is one of her Qatari friends, who also happens to work for AlJazheera. He's arranging for us to have iftar (dinner at the end of fasting) on the Al-Jazheera compound, and then a tour of the studio! What an amazing opportunity, and how gracious of him to offer this chance.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Time delays

Hello again to all of my patient friends and family! I apologize up and down, to myself and you as well, for my delay in writing. I had many different obstacles, but the major was internet access, or should I say the lack of internet access. I finally, keep your fingers crossed, have a stable internet connection, and hope it stays this way. : ) I've kept a running tab of things that I need to write about, and I'll be doing this in stages so stay tuned!

All in all, life continues to go well. I had my first class today, and I had 9 of my 20 women show up. It's Ramadan, and apparently missing the first classes is expected. I expected a few to be missing, but over half?! Oh well...a nice easy start is OK by me. The girls were all quite nice, and are just beginning to understand that they are now in the university system; last semester they were all still in the Foundations program, which meant that they were finishing the intensive English courses that prepare them to enter the university. I've been told to "play nice" with them. Hmmm....I think I can play nice, but with an authoritarian air....

to be continued....

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Leo

how oh how could I forget to tell you all about my lil companion Leo??? He's fiesty, playful, talkative, and super cuddly ~ he's our new kitten! Once I get the camera from Rabah, whose wonderful cousin fixed it for free!!!, I'll post some photos. Here's his story....

In general, animal care here is very poor, and stray animals abound. Some expatriates set up an animal shelter, and they're deeply overwhelmed with homeless animals. It seems that locals, and expatriates, get these animals, realizing later that either a) they don't want them or b) they can't take them with them wherever they're off to next, so they take them to the shelter. My dear little Leo didn't have this experience, however. He and his 3 siblings were following people home here on our compound when they were just 3 weeks old. One of his siblings had a gaping hole in his belly, and was taken to the vet, who sutchered him up, and he's as good as new.

My mentor knew the person who had taken them in, and asked if we'd like one ~ Rabah said no...doesn't want the cat pooping inside the house, and I said YES! Of course! I convinced Rabah that it is really bad to let animals live out on the street, which he knows of course, and he hesitatingly gave in....well....really I just brought the kitty home, saying that I needed company because I'm too homesick. : ) Who can say no now?! Certainly not my dear husband ~ hehehee...

Rabah and I believe that he is a mix with a local, perhaps desert, cat, as his ears are HUGE, his legs loooooong, and paws are big too. Adorable really ~ very intriguiging markings as well. You'll see soon enough! With that, I must say meeeooowww for now!

The little things in life

I forget that so many of you have never heard the call to prayer, or the athan. Some people, those who are located right next to the speaker, get annoyed after awhile, but I thoroughly enjoy hearing the athan throughout the day. Not only is the meaning of it spiritually awakening, the sound is calming for me as well. I think reminders to pray/meditate/yogatate/contemplate/take a break throughout the day are fabulous for one's sanity, and whole-heartedly embrace the experience of the athan.

Doha is my oyster....

Today was quite fruitful, as a number of things happened that will allow me to further plan my time here. First, and most importantly, I got my residence permit AND my Qatari ID!!!! :) This allows me to explore my world here, which really means that now I can get everything I need to start an actual life here. Now I can get my license, phone, internet, and car....ahhh....the bliss....

Now, I know I'm making this sound like it's going to be oh so easy, but, alas, nothing comes that easily for now it is Ramadan (Ramadan Kareem to you Muslims reading this!!!!), and EVERYWHERE is on "Ramadan Hours", which mostly means that they're not open. Including the US Embassy. Oh wait, I stand corrected. The US Embassy, where I had an appointment scheduled today, which they failed to cancel, only to be told that they're closed today for Labor Day, and they're closed tomorrow. Then, for Ramadan, they're only open from 10am-12pm on certain days. SERIOUSLY??!! What's even better is that when I tried to make another appointment, they told me I couldn't make one because I already have one, which again doesn't make sense because they're not open, so why let me make the appointment??? Anyway, I finally worked out a time, and a driver, to get to the Embassy, but I've got to miss some work to make it happen between 10-12pm. I need my police clearance, so what's a girl to do?

In essence, for the next month, everything has "limited hours" during the day, which can mean a number of things, but it mostly means that services are hard to get, and the items on my "to do" list will take longer to get checked off. One is also not allowed to eat/drink in public during the daylight hours, in front of others, which is fine by me, as I fast along side the rest of 'em. I highly suggest doing this, as it really does make one feel better at the end of a month. Drink plenty of water throughout the night, however, of thirst will get you. I am always surprised by the number of Christians that are from the Middle East who fast every year by choice. Quite a bonding experience : )

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Immigration in a new world....

My first day at the university went incredibly smooth, especially considering how much goes into starting a new life in a new country! They had everything set up in one room, except my laptop, but that's OK. I got my phone card (a much better system than the States I must say ~ no contracts, no locked phones, no nothing. You buy a sim card, put money on it, and then buy whatever phone you want from any vendor. If you want to do post-paid, you can do that too....after the residence card is issued that is.), my bank account, my university ID card, loan application, and date for my medical exam.

That was it ~ until i got the medical exam there wasn't much to do, and since it was already thursday, I'd have to do that on Sunday, as the weekends are Friday/Saturday here. So....on comes Sunday morning at 7am, when the car is supposed to pick us up.

Around 7:30am the shuttle comes, and says he's going to the campus, and we said we needed the car for the medical place, and he said "no car". So we go to the campus, and they're very surprised to see us, as we're supposed to be across town waiting to be examined! No problem. Another driver takes us over to the medical commission. Keep in mind that this is where EVERYONE comes to get their medical cards for public health care, so there are lines, BUT Miriam, the lifesaver, has saved a spot in line with me with another employee who got picked up on time! : ) So I pay my fees, get photographed through some glass (a horrid picture if I do say so), and go to get my blood drawn (they're very strict about illnesses in this country. If you have something that isn't rampant here yet, and you test positive, you're sent home, period. HIV and TB are the biggies as far as I know.). So, this lady very effectively, and quickly, draws my blood, stamps my paper, and off I go to get an x-ray. So, I go wait inline again, which are actually chairs, but people try to walk right to the front, and we're all like "No!" Anyway, we're all changing into hospital gowns, and then I get to the front of the line, walk to the other side of the room to wait my turn. I'm watching the nurse slam people against the x-ray machine, while at the same time telling them to relax!!! Are you serious! You just dislocated her shoulder, and you want her to relax?! So, at least I knew what to expect, and sure enough ~ bam! But then it was over : ) I put my clothes back on, and went to look for the Dr., who could give me the all clear. I got it ~ I'm free of any diseases that would get me booted from the country : )

After the medical...

Now that I've finished the medical, and was approved 3 days later, I can finally apply for my residence card. Thank goodness! I seriously need to get my Qatari license so I can get a rental car to get to campus and around campus (It's large, maze-like, and it's hot!) Now, the only thing left is to get my police clearance from the Embassy, which I go to tomorrow!

Upon arrival....

My journey towards Q-ville, as my friend Joyce so aptly names this place I now call home, began with a very hectic Tuesday morning, during which many tears were shed. I was leaving Sara, my fabulous neighbors, and my dear husband ~ what is there NOT to cry about??!! Leaving Sara was by far the most difficult thing I've ever had to do, period. She's excited about things to come, as are we, but still. So after we frantically ran around, packing boxes and suitcases, I got a surprise at the door ~ a package from some friends in CA that arrived JUST as we were leaving, so I had to do a minor repack, which was soooo worth it! Thank you Stephanie for your fabulous timing! Sara also got her birthday gift in the same package, and was equally as happy! : ) That was a nice, uplifting moment that made us all sort of forget the sadness we were feeling.

Oh ~ I cannot forget to tell you all a little story about a fabulous lady named Jan. She volunteered to come all the way from ND to help me paint my kitchen, which I'd completely stripped 8 months ago, before I left. It looks fabulous ~ THANKS MOM!!! She was a complete blessing to have in Seattle, and it was great to see her before leaving.

Where was I....oh yes....so, we went to the airport. Rabah was going back to work, so he was going to try getting onto my flight to DC, but only the jumpseat was available (metal chair + 6 hours = not so much). Sadly, I then had to say my goodbyes to him as well. I'm sure people thought I was crazy, crying while saying goodbye to my pilot husband! Sheesh lady ~ do you never see him??? Well, if they only knew that I didn't know when I would see him again. And then.....I left. Took off into the air, getting the usual rush I get upon takeoff, knowing that I'm about to go somewhere, regardless of where it is. I absolutely love this feeling, even if I don't want to leave somewhere. We landed in DC, and I had a blissful 1 hour layover ~ truly 1 hour is bliss. I then boarded Qatar Airways bound for Doha, where we would arrive in approximately 12 hours.

OK ~ so if you've ever flown on a 5-Star airline before, you'll know what I mean when I say this flight was THE BEST!!! I've flown internationally on KLM, Lufthansa, United and Quantas. They don't have anything on the service Qatar Airways offers, nor on the ammenities they have for coach passengers. Seriously. And QA is cheaper, but I wouldn't really know that because I didn't pay for the ticket. My seatmate told me. Each seat has it's own tv, with remote, that plays a bagillion movies, and has a games channel for kids as well. There are two actual meals with plenty of snacks inbetween if desired. As far as flights go, it was the shortest long flight I've taken.

We arrived, and I was whisked away by airport hospitality, who took care of my visa and such. Walked right to the front of the immigration line with her, went through, and then waited while they collected my luggage, which came through unscathed. I was expecting to wait for at least an hour to get through customs and everything, but I was out of the airport within 20 minutes of landing. That's what I call service! We met a university representative outside, and he drove me to my new humble abode, which is HUGE. My friend, and mentor, Tracy, who's Texan, describes it as the size of a small house (3 bedrooms, which are quite large), two full baths, one half bath, a ginormous kitchen, and a good size living room. I was prepared for horribly gaudy furniture, but was pleasantly surprised with some velvet cream colored furniture (couch, loveseat, two chairs), as well as a 6-person dining table with buffet. I was tired, but pleasantly surprised by it all.

After he left, about an hour later, there was a knock on my door, and I thought "who in the world!". It was Tracy! : ) She'd been out to the airport, but we were way early, so I'd already come back (this means about 50 minutes of traffic for her!) She persevered, and found me at home, which was incredibly nice of her, and it was very nice to see a familiar face (she'd met me in Seattle while visiting friends).

Then I put the sheets on my bed, and went to sleep.

What I'm doing here....

It appears that I've forgotten to write to basic reason I am here, so MANY have you have asked "What in the heck are you doing there?!". With no further ado....I am here teaching English at Qatar University. I was hired by their Foundation Program to teach non-credit ESL to students who didn't pass the TOEFL exam, an international exam testing students grasp of English. The university teaches the majority of classes in English, except for religious studies, which is taught in Arabic. I was sweating bullets that I'd end up teaching a beginning course, as I haven't EVER taught beginning ESL! My research, and second Masters, is in teaching college Composition and Post-Secondary Reading, which basically means reading after highschool. Anywhooter, I have been assigned to Post-Foundation, and from what I gather it is supposed to be sort of like an equivalent to Freshman Composition, which relieves me to NO end! : ) I'm excited to see what sort of challenges these classes possess, and I'm sure there are many.

The university itself is segregated, a women's campus and a men's campus. They are right next to each other, but the classes are not mixed. I, however, as an instructor may be teaching on the women's or men's campus. I'm sure it will take some getting used to (i.e. teaching a room full of males only), but that's OK. A new experience that will probably allow for a lot of interesting cultural discussion that they wouldn't open up about if they weren't segregated. At SFSU, in San Francisco, two of my classes were predominantly female (2 males out of 20), so I won't be as surprised by the ladies only if that's what I get. : ) I should find out tomorrow.

The campus website is: http://www.qu.edu.qa/main/index.html

Take a look around if you like!

Friday, August 29, 2008

Musings on myself....

So, here I am, all by my lonesome, sitting in my kitchen, leeching a wireless connection off of one of my lovely neighbors who's been here long enough to get a connection up and running. Where's my kitchen you ask? In a lovely, sauna-like city, Doha, in the lovely, sandy country of Qatar, which is in the Middle East for those of you who don't know, and are too afraid to ask. Never fear. Only about 10% of the people I talked to actually knew where it was, and most of them weren't really certain on it's whereabouts, but knew somewhere in the Middle East. Once I say "Do you know where Dubai is?", people usually have a reference point. So, Doha's about a 45 minute flight from Dubai, on a tiny penisula that juts up into the Persian Gulf.

The weather (dumdeedumdum DUM)
Because of it's location, being a desert completely surrounded by water, the weather is not only very hot, but VERY humid. I am fairly certain, however, that Phoenix and Las Vegas, are equally as hot, but not as humid. The humidity is the killer, though I love saunas, so for now I'm loving it, as long as my airconditioners continue to work that is. In North Dakota during the winter time, peoples glasses for up when they go inside from the cold, but the opposite is true here ~ whenever I go outside, my glasses fog up. Imagine what a pain this can be for those of us who are truly, nearly blind! I simply choose to wear my contacts and sunglasses most of the time, which eliminates most problems, but I've got to get some prescription sunglasses. The combination of a blaring sun and white desert sand is just too much for my poor, little retinas. That said, I sort of like the feeling of walking outside just before evening, feeling my skin become enveloped in an invisible, warm mist ~ quite a change from Seattle I assure you.

The Qatari people

The population of Qatar is vastly expatriate, workers from other countries, with the local population totalling around 30% of the population. Most Qataris work in office jobs, such as banks, universities, etc., while people from South East Asia, Nepal, Bangladesh, India, Sri Lanka, Lebanon, Syria, and other countries, work in retail and hard labor. The Qatari people are extremely welcoming and friendly, though like anywhere else there are those who are rude and obnoxious, but, speaking for myself, I've not had a bad experience yet. The country itself is VERY young, as in 25-30 years old, and I must say that I am beyond impressed with how well the country has coped with the velocity at which things have been changing here.

Multi-cultural sightings

First, and foremost, Doha is certainly an incredibly international city. One simply steps out of their door to notice this. For example, in my apartment building of 8, my neighbors are from the following places: US, Japan, Canada, Bangladesh, India and Palestine (this isn't Rabah). In the shuttle to and from campus, I've met faculty from Indonesia, Pakistan, Sudan via Kuala Lumpur, Czeckoslovakia, France, England, Australia, and a few other places. Walking around the malls, and there are plenty of them, I feel like I'm in a mini-Muslim USA. No joke. There are differences of course, such as the grocery stores being located in the malls, which is a great idea commercially, but for the most part there's an uncanny similarity, which I'm not sure how I feel about, but that's another discussion entirely. For example, there's the DQ, which I'm not complaining about, TCBY, which took my by total surprise, TGIF, Hardees, Subway, McD's, Pizza Hut, Surf City, and a plethora of other food stores. For some reason, there are a lot of French cafes as well. The other day we were at the mall, eating in a French cafe, being waiting on by a South African, and the manager was Lebanese/Syrian. Talk about an international experience in one meal. Oh, one other thing that surprised me about the malls ~ they all have a mini-amusement park! Because it's so hot outside, they've built these parks into the malls for the kids! What a fabulous idea!

Language

There's no need for people to speak Arabic here, as the majority of the shopkeepers are international, so a variety of Englishes are spoken, including by the local population. I often wonder how they feel, having to speak a foreign language to buy goods in their own country. This is a can of worms that I would like to remain closed, as I can already hear the voices of many in the US, claiming the same thing is happening there, which it is not, but like I said ~ can + worms = closed. Just an observation, not a comparison.

I, however, am keen to keep up my Arabic studies, so am searching out different venues for doing so. The locals appreciate the effort that many people make in trying to learn Arabic, and I think it is only fair. People come here to earn vast amounts of money, and I think it's only appropriate that they make some effort to understand the local population. That said, many don't because they can get by just fine without learning it. Hmmm...another parallel with language issues in the US. But we won't go there quite yet either : ) I'm teasing of course, but the more I write, the more similarities I see, which is altogether quite fascinating for a second language teacher of English in both countries.

Driving....

I won't write much here, as I've not attempted to drive yet, but will be soon, so watch for news! I will say that it will surely be an adventure.

Oh ~ totally unrelated to anything I've written. If any of you travel outside the US, be aware that you cannot access ABC shows from outside the US online. I always watch my favorites online the day after they air, and was excited about this possibility, but alas....I was forbidden : (

I think I've given you all enough to chew on for now, so I'll wrap this up, but will write another post on what I've personally been through since arriving.

Dear, sweet Sara....

Sara is spending the next year in Seattle with her mom, as getting her into an international school her is nearly impossible with their waiting lists. She's going into the 4th grade, which seems completely impossible, but it's true. She'll be entering the world of pre-teen hormonal meltdowns before I can blink, I'm sure! Therefore, I refuse to open my eyes, enjoying the relative calm of 10-year-old-hood while I can! I know her parents are as well :) Some of her loves are swimming, hiking, camping, animals, biking, computer games and reading. Some of her extreme dislikes are ~ get this ~ bugs of any sort (I'm not sure why she likes to camp, as she spends the whole time getting away from the bugs) and spiders (completely arachnophobic, and I'm not exagerating, as I'm known to do).

She'll start the school year in early September, so I hope she's enjoying the rest of what the summer in Seattle has to offer! : )

Rabah and his flying...

Rabah is currently flying with Mesa Airlines, and is based out of Charlotte, NC until the end of September when he will move his base to Chicago, moving him closer to Sara, who is still in Seattle. The move to Chicago will also be fabulous simply because he will get more flight time there than in NC ~ the key to a pilot's career is flight hours; the more hours you have, the higher up their food chain you go. The goal is for him to get enough hours to apply with Qatar Airways, based here in Doha, by December, and hoping that he's offered a job. All of their pilots are internationally chosen, as are their flight attendants, and they're supposedly having an explosion in employment opportunities, so keep your fingers crossed, as I want my husband with me ASAP! : )

Though he abhors the time away from Sara, and the number of hours slept in a reclining chair at the airport, he loves the flying, and knows that he's paying his dues for a short time at the beginning of his career. Now, I don't agree that pilot's should be sleeping in reclining chairs because they can't afford to spend the night in a hotel umteen numbers of nights per month, based on what the airlines pay them, but who am I to say a word to the airlines in the US about how they should treat their employees (I'm including flight attendants in this statement)? Perhaps someday the airlines will learn to not abuse their employees, but, then again, maybe not. I'm happy to say that Qatar Airways is well reknowned for their treatment of their employees, and must say that their package is SAWEEEET! Perhaps I should go for flight training.....hmmmm....OK; I completely understand that this will never happen, as I don't have the drive, and to become a pilot, like a Dr., you must possess the love of flying or you will burn out before you leave the ground. So ~ that's where Rabah is for now ~

Apologies first...

OK, so I feel incredibly guilty that I've not written since my time in Palestine many months ago, but I don't feel so guilty that I mope around my beautiful, new apartment, banging my head against the wall, asking myself "Why oh why do I procrastinate so?!" That said ~ I left many people hanging, and I apologize. Now, however, I will probably have a price on my head if I don't keep up with this blog, especially since I will be away from the States for a minimum of 3 years, teaching and learning in the Middle East, specifically in Doha, Qatar. So, now that you're armed with that bit of information, let me fill in the rest of the family information.....